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As his relationship patterns are the opposite of mine, a part of me fears that if we were to really date, one of us might wind up getting hurt. We also have a tight group of friends, and I think we are both afraid to compromise that. In my work and other aspects of life, I am uncomfortable with comfortable. We both teach Wednesday nights, so we went out to dinner after class to the Fat Raddish. When we set the date for this project, I didn’t realize it was actually the first day of spring. Anyway, dinner tonight was pretty normal, not unlike other times we’ve hung out and had dinner. We talked about our families more than we ever did before. It was refreshing to hear this since I didn’t grow up with any money, either. Earlier in the day I sent a little note to Jessie by messenger. I’m not worried about the unknown, but about us falling into our usual roles, and how we deal with that.

But when it comes to relationships, I do seek secure relationships that are clearly defined. Jessie brought me a little care package of stuff to jokingly get me through the next 40 days. I wanted to honor our project together with something lighthearted. How do you feel about this relationship/project right now? The play is about a bunch of college students going to parties, getting drunk, having sex, and their complicated interpersonal relationships.

So You don’t want a man who is sensitive, caring, and emotionally available, because he makes you feel too vulnerable, too seen. And we bring that fear forward into new relationships. We trust these men with our hearts, that they will treat them with pride and with care.

At least if we get involved with the stereotypical jerk-of-a-male, when our hearts get broken, we can say we saw it coming, that we knew it would come to this. And so when those relationships come to an end, we’re devastated.

He’s been a great friend, and I know he’s a very kind person.

We all have our issues and cope with life differently.

They have the best roasted carrots, and my favorite tequila jalapeño drink. Before the date, Tim had a messenger deliver a cute note: “Me You x 40. He told me that when his mother got pregnant, his father made her choose between keeping the child or staying with him. We had our first date at The Fat Radish in the Lower East Side. However, I know that when an opportunity scares me, I must go for it. No matter what the outcome, it will certainly be an interesting experience. There is always one girl he’s really excited about, a second girl he’s been seeing for a few weeks and is starting to get bored with, and a third girl he’s been seeing a month or two and is getting ready to call quits. We discussed Tim’s relationship patterns, and how he’s in a constant cycle between three women.He breaks off relationships before they get too serious to avoid the risk of abandonment.He’s built up this reputation for himself as a “player,” but I see past the façade.

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