Dating how to analyse
Does being an over-thinker, sometimes make me indecisive? Has over-thinking sometimes prevented me from taking action.
Sure, but it's comforting to find meaning in normal, every day things like a hello or a Facebook update.
But that being said, there is a very fine line between being aware and over-analyzing.
And it is important to know whether or not you are someone with a tendency to cross that line.
By not telling us the whole story, you're giving our minds permission to go to work filling in the details, and then if the surprise isn't as fantastic as expected, your over-thinker will be let down, If the surprise is amazing, and the over-thinker had already decided it would be kind of sucky, then the goodness of the surprise will be tarnished a little.
I didn't say we over-thinkers always made perfect sense.
We can be the life of the party, have a fantastic time, and then spend the next week or so, doing a playback of those party moments where we could have said something funnier, or now that we're thinking about it, we kind of embarrassed ourselves when we won that drinking game. Just make sure that what you share via social media is up to scrutiny.
It's not just cyberstalkers who look at their dates social media, it's almost everybody and that includes the over-thinker. As over-thinkers, we sometimes upset people without meaning to, and we're really sorry.
When you communicate with an over-thinker, whether it's in person, text or email, make sure you aren't sending mixed messages because it could send us on an over-think spiral like you wouldn't believe.If we skip dinner then we might get too hungry to enjoy the movie.Sometimes when you're on a date with an over-thinker, it might seem as if she isn't that interested in you or that she's rude because she's just staring intensely and not saying much.It’s always good to be paying attention to what’s going on in your relationship and watching for signs that everything is going well.After all, a healthy relationship will have both, you and your partner, on the same page.