Writing profile for dating website
Here are some more examples: You'll notice that good banner headlines are positive, interesting, and humorous. Donna Frank of Nashua, New Hampshire, attracted now-husband Eric's attention with her headline, "Modern-Day Elaine Seeking Her Seinfeld." On the other hand, banner headlines that spook guys are heavy and hostile. Some sites require you to disclose height, weight, and age right up front.
Don't make these mistakes: It's less than 100 words -- sometimes as few as 25 -- but this descriptive paragraph needs to convey the experience of you. If you've been fudging for a while and can get away with shaving a few pounds or years, you might be okay.
Don't have them glaze over the section about who you are because it reads like everyone else's.
I have not been this happy in a relationship in a VERY long time and I'm sure that my new profile helped to get my boyfriend's attention. I was almost ready to give up on the whole concept of online dating before trying e-Cyrano.
When the 50-SOMETHING TENNIS CHAMP I agreed to meet turned out to be 72, the sweet bouquet he brought didn't keep me from leaving soon after our handshake. Jim Fischer, who started his online search at 49, listed "someone my own age" as his number one criteria.
"I was married for seven years to a Gen Xer who was 15 years younger than me," he says. Her cultural references began with the movie Sixteen Candles and ended somewhere around Buffy the Vampire Slayer.
The opening profile is your first and perhaps most important dating tool.
Be honest with what is a cliché (and try to avoid them). Make your self-summary feel like the first line of a novel.
"Recognize when you're repeating something that you've heard," said Dan, one of the attendees, and then try to eliminate it from your profile. It needs to be the "hook." The "about" section is where you can sound most generic, Eggers told Dan, so make sure you hook people in like you would in a book.
Or you may possess intriguing physical attributes, like Nordic Blonde Buddy, Blondie, Green-eyed Lady, Ole Blue Eyes, Sunny Smiles, Dimpled&Adorable, Polishedn Pretty, Cute Redhead, and Brown-eyed Gal.
Personality might be your strong suit: Heartof Gold, Warm&Lively, Thoughful Lady, Friendly&Affectionate, Great Listener, Spirited&Sensitive, Cozy Charmer, Fun Fran, Happy Gal, Sue Is Nice, Sweetn Shy. I chuckled when I read the refreshing Middleage Overweight Schoolmarm.